How to Be Welcomed Anywhere!

If  you think I am exaggerating I don’t blame you, people tend to be very incredulous when no proof is given, but there are countless examples of how to be welcomed anywhere when you are interesting. It is in our nature when we find someone or something that we don’t quite understand to either dismiss it or to be more curious about it. If I was you I would take the latter which is being curious just in case I wasn’t clear enough. Curiosity then tends to translate into being INTERESTED which is the real secret to being an interesting person.

That is the truth about how you can be an interesting person like Jay Abraham says, “If you want to be interesting be interested.” Well what does that mean? It means you should take the time to get outside of your head and figure out what other people are thinking. Most of the time we try to make friends by showing them how cool we are or by telling them about all of our achievements. So instead of trying to impress others a better approach would be to learn about others and then they will be open to learn about you.

Let me give you an example if you ask someone about what they do they will go on and on  and on. It’s no joke ask anyone about what they like or figure out what their passions are and they can write you a whole book on it. I’ve actually experienced this myself, the key here to getting the other person interested is of course to be genuine and expect nothing in return for giving them your time and praise. That’s the other wrong thing with approaching people many times we’re just out to get what we want so that is our reason for getting in contact with them in the first place. It can’t be helped we’re wired to take care of ourselves, but if you go against the natural thing to do it can pay many dividends. Which is to give without expectation.

What you give doesn’t necessarily have to be monetary. For instance when you give someone your full attention you’re giving them something which is much more powerful than money you are giving them appreciation for who they are and that is a powerful thing that can impact a person’s life. If you do something like that how are they not gonna want to give you the same back?  You can also give them something that they need if you are concerned with someone’s situation. Perhaps they need food or clothing and you give them that it will show how caring you are to them and there is no other sign of being interested in someone’s life than by giving them something with no expectation in return.

If you can manage to be more interested, unselfish, giving without any expectations I can assure you that you will be paid for handsomely by the world and it won’t just be a little it will be 10x what you are asking for.

To be welcomed anywhere be more interested in others.